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Post by ghost on Aug 26, 2003 11:28:10 GMT -5
Btw , think it's bette we go see her than u bring her 2 next gathering coz' she will need a while 2 b fully recover lor ........ just a suggestion lah! ....... u see how ok . Think Clover has mention this to me before.....think have to wait till around sept time then i'll see what i can do....
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Post by clover on Aug 28, 2003 8:47:12 GMT -5
Hello everyone, another update from me. Good news is Chloe is much better! She is almost back to her old self, as mischievious as ever. She has gotten her mew back, been yowling for attention everyday. Just that she is still tender. If I pick her up too quickly, can hear the whoosh in her injured lungs, and she'll flinch. But she won't bite. She has taken to licking me extensively, that I'm scared to sleep when she is out in my room. She'll lick my face, then my neck, she'll move to my fingers, then walk down to lick my toes. I'm happy to see her in such high spirits, but that's a bit too much. Funny thing is she doesn't lick my bf as much. Also, she has gone back to her old habit of terrorising my dog. (I'm telling you all this to show that she has improved alot. My dog was drinking water, she walked over slowly...and jumped up and bit her ear. My dog yelped and ran off. Another time, my dog was sleeping peacefully next to my bed, she snuck up on her and bit her leg. My dog yelped again and got up. She looked so hurt, it was comical. Chloe, of course, was very smug and pleased with herself. One bad thing is, she hasn't learned her lesson. I really can't leave her along in any room with open windows. I walked out to get some water, and found her climbing my towel, to get to the open window and jump out. I quickly dropped the glass and grabbed her. She gave me another bad shock. Obviously, she's still very attracted to the window. As for things between my bf and me, we're a little bit more settled. With Chloe's improvement, we're less snappy, definitely. I didn't quarrel with my bf abt the cage door. Instead, I quarrelled with him cos he felt that the pets were becoming too much for the 2 of us to handle. He asked me to sell some. Chloe's accident came at a worse time, cos it reinforced his argument that we can't pay enough attention to all of them. To the point where we get careless, and accidents happen. I dun blame him for the cage door, that night, we were really both exhausted. But I disagree that I shld sell some pets. I was very angry and we quarrelled. It was quite a bad quarrel too. I guess I really can ask my mum abt the mesh. The problem is, my mum has been talking abt moving house again. She talked abt it last year, then she shelved the idea cos she was retrenched, then she had to concentrate on getting another job. Now, she's talking abt it again. Worse is, she discussed with her fiance, and their ideas dun include me! She asked me to quickly get married and move out. I was so insulted! She was literally throwing me out! So I dun want to ask her anything abt house or home. Just gets me riled up to yell at how she wants to throw me out. Anyway, okie, abt coming to visit Chloe. I was thinking I'll arrange it near to the end of Sept. Cos my common tests will still be on in the next 2.5 weeks. So, by then, it's almost end of Sept. I haven't asked my bf yet, but I dun think it shld be too difficult. Especially if I say, "You can go out with your friends on that day." He'll probably leap, hop, skip, jump at the chance. Darn, he's alwiz complaining he got no time for friends. So annoying. Actually, you all can bring your pets if you want. I admit my place isn't that big, but it's okie if you all let the pets stay in the living room lor. Can sit on the floor lor. But if you all dun bring, also can. I see how. Anyway, that's later on. Meanwhile, things are bad in school for me. Argh, I flunked a quiz, inorganic chemistry. Darn. That one isn't all that impt, but still, it's 10% of my total grade. I'm gonna have to work real hard. And finally, to puppy, highheels, animosity, bubblesbiscuit, jellybean, geraldo, ghost and daniel, thanks for all your help and concern! Thanks to the rest of the forum, for offering your friendship too. Chloe is right now, trying to lick my fingers. Oh wait, she has just decided to dash across the bed and run to the door. She is mad. lolz
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Post by Leoric on Aug 28, 2003 10:46:41 GMT -5
May many blessings be upon Chloe.....
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Post by puppy on Aug 28, 2003 10:56:56 GMT -5
clover > SO SO happy to know that chloe is almost back to normal liao... really make my moody day feels much better... didnt know chloe is so mischievious... she look so GUAI during the chalet leh... very manja, very obedient... hahaha... imagine, what she's thinking when she sees ur dog, titch... chloe (while looking at titch and walking towards her): hiak hiak hiak hiak... i'm back! ur holiday is OVER! titch (still dunno that chloe has almost recovered, still happily drinking water PEACEFULLY. she has been having PEACE for the past few days): ah~~~~... life is so wonderful without that BIG BULLY, chloe... chloe (stood behind titch): life must have been boring without me around, right? must be laughing away 'cause i fell right? do u miss me? miss my attacks? hiak hiak hiak... i'll give u a GREAT surprise... HIAK HIAK!! titch still dunno that chloe is planning an attack... chloe (already got idea on head, jumped up and give titch a BIG bite on her ear): SURPRISE, titch!!! titch yelped and ran off... chloe (seeing titch's reactions, laughed her head off, rolling from 1 end to other end of house): HAHAHAHAHA.... chloe finds it not enough... so planned for another SURPRISE attack... really reminds me of TOM & JERRY leh... but this time it's about a cat and a dog. hahaha... as for ur bf and mom, i think u really need to spend some time to really consider whether u want to share the rest of ur life with ur bf. better not drag 'cause u dunno when ur mom will sell the house away. sekali 1 day they just tell u they going to sell and ask u to find ur own place to stay. then u CHAM. many landlords wont allow tenants with pets 1. think maybe if u have friends also renting flat, maybe can share with them, rent a whole house (ie. pte property) with them. but $$... u now not working, cant afford leh... if u intend to get married to ur bf, then maybe can get a flat or stay with his family 1st lor. i think no matter what hor, must downsize leh. unless u can find someone who can help u look after ur pets for u, until u get some place to stay. i think some of us here is having this problem... haiz........... how come pet lovers always have so many problems 1 ah?
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Post by clover on Aug 29, 2003 19:58:53 GMT -5
lolz That's very funny, puppy! Hahaha, ya, I think that's what Chloe and Titch were thinking.
I told my bf abt what my mum is planning, he asked me to move to his home, live with his family. I disagree strongly, cos I know it'll be terrible for the animals. My bf lives on landed property, so he has a big garden. He said he'll build a large shed to keep all the pets in the garden, cos I know his mum will never agree to keep them inside the house. But also, another problem is his super violent dog, Tiara. She'll wreak havoc among the small animals, plus she loves to terrorise Chloe!
When I brought Chloe to visit, Tiara sat on top of her before, trying to crush her. I jumped up and had to haul that stupid dog off, cos poor Chloe was mewing and being crushed. And Tiara tried to eat my bf's gerbils before, she got a few smacks from my bf cos of that. We know it's her nature, can't be trained, so I really don't trust her. I dun totally blame her, but I definitely don't trust her.
So I really dun want to live with my bf's family! I know my options are very limited, but pls, I hope you all can give me other suggestions. I think abt living with them and I already feel like going mad. It's impossible!
As for my mum, I told her very firmly, that she must not move in these 3 years that I'm studying. I told her no matter what, cannot. I dunno if she'll listen, but I'm trying my best.
Argh, meanwhile, my bf is still pushing me to downsize. Actually, he already succeeded in making me sell 1 pet. Now he's pushing me to sell another. I dun want to sell any! Plus, I think he is considering the notion of selling all his gerbils. I am horrified! I want to scream and shout, but dunno what to say. I know one thing, my bf is very obsessed with getting his driving license asap. He failed his final theory a second time, and he came back very angry and frustrated. I'm beginning to feel afraid.
He's so obsessed with his driving, that I've seen recently, that he's gotten absent-minded and not focused on the pets. I dunno what he's doing. I have to speak to him sharply sometimes, to get his attention and bring him back to the pets. Am actually quite angry with his driving obsession. I told him he shld not rush, cos like that, it'll be much worse. He said he wants it all done and finished before the end of this year, in fact, really asap. I think if he cld pass it NOW, he'll do anything he can to achieve it. Madness. Scary, really.
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Post by puppy on Aug 30, 2003 9:42:36 GMT -5
clover > really like chloe... full of mischief... very good to have her 'cause she'll definitely NEVER fail to make us laugh... tell ur bf he fail his driving theory 'cause it's retribution 'cause he kept wanting u to sell ur pets. *joking* better not say that ah... wait u2 fight again... aiyo... actually if build shed hor, still possible lah. but must make sure shed wont be VERY hot in the day lor. u can actually make it like a SMALL wooden room mah. that way tiara cannot disturb ur pets... have to make compromises 1 lor. bo bian. better than homeless and NO pets right? i think downsizing is a must-do lor. bo bian. but just make sure that the pets go to good homes. slowly lah. this will take time. at least if u know where the pets are, u wont feel so bad 'cause can still see how they are mah... i think ur bf VERY disappointed that he failed his driving theory lah. maybe he didnt expect it lor. that's why he so listless recently. hope he can get over it soon 'cause it's no point brooding over it since it's already over. might as well get on his feet, carry on with his life, prepare for next test. just hope ur mom can really spare a thought for u lor. i think meanwhile, u try to downsize lah, to GOOD homes, to friends u know. or maybe see if anyone can board them for u until u got ur own place. haiz.......... i didnt know that own parents will care so little about their kids' love for pets. want do anything, they just do, until recently. seen quite a few cases of this sort recently. haiz......................
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Post by clover on Aug 30, 2003 23:21:13 GMT -5
Haiz...I really dun want to live at his home. Honestly, actually, I can't really get along with his sister. Last time can, but recently, his sister become very snappy. She came and snapped at me just the day before only, cos I was using the computer (I just logged on only!) and she wanted to use it. She told me that I MUST get off the computer. And she didn't ask k, she demanded. Somemore glare at me.
My bf was there and he glare at her, but she ignore him. Then she logged on to, you know do what, download songs! It's not do homework, it's download songs! She is crazy lor. When she wants something, she'll talk to you nicely, but when she thinks you're in her way, she'll just ask you to get lost, when you haven't even done anything offensive.
Sometimes I feel his family quite mad also. So I dun want to live with him. I told him already. Argh. As for downsizing, I think that with the constant pressure from my bf, I'll either go mad or he'll force me to sell them one by one. And I know he's got a persistent drive. The darn odds are against me. But I put my foot down and yelled when he started on the chinchillas and Bunbun. If he even suggested I sell them, he's gonna find himself on my front door step. Cos I'll personally throw him out. If he's persistent abt selling them, well, I'm equally adamant abt keeping them.
Then yesterday, he kept complaining abt how much money I'm spending on the pets. I didn't know whether to start screaming or laugh incredulously. Cos I spend less than $300 on the pets per month, but my bf actually loves to change his handphone. He now has 2 handphones, but he only has 1 line. Then he'll still keep searching for other nice handphones to buy, so who do you think is spending more money? I wanted to strangle him when he was complaining.
Plus, abt his stupid driving. Argh...dammit. You know, I try my best to encourage him, he said I'll never understand! I said, I admit, I know I never learn driving, but I'm trying to give you encouragement. He said, I must deal with this myself, can't talk to anyone abt this one. You can't help me. I felt really angry lor, cos I'm trying to make you feel better, you're the one drowning yourself in misery and pessimism. So of course will fail la. When you expect to fail, you'll probably fail what. I want to vomit blood liao.
Ya, I dunno why, but it seems that with the recent poor economy, many parents force their kids into independence. I got classmates like that. They all work part-time, got very little time to study. They dun get money from their parents, only for school fees. They must work to get money to eat. It's scary lor.
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Post by ghost on Aug 31, 2003 1:14:49 GMT -5
Plus, abt his stupid driving. Argh...dammit. You know, I try my best to encourage him, he said I'll never understand! I said, I admit, I know I never learn driving, but I'm trying to give you encouragement. He said, I must deal with this myself, can't talk to anyone abt this one. You can't help me. I felt really angry lor, cos I'm trying to make you feel better, you're the one drowning yourself in misery and pessimism. So of course will fail la. When you expect to fail, you'll probably fail what. I want to vomit blood liao. Maybe can let your bf know that the stupid ghost took 6 times Basic for driving yet he still flunk,hahahah....not easy when u don't really go for it.....must be very focus lei....well,i'm obviously not focus enuff..... Geez....think i'm out of topic liao....how's Chloe doing??hope she's doing welll & i believe we'll soon see her in action in no time,huh??
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Post by puppy on Aug 31, 2003 5:33:59 GMT -5
clover > ya... i think we are out of topic liao... hahaha... under chloe's thread, we talk about ur bf. hahaha... think u can go to 'how to become a better couple?' thread in human chatroom to talk about ur bf. u and bf hor, really got a lot of things to settle ah... if not hor, really find it difficult to work out leh. ya lor... how's chloe ah? fully recovered liao? how's titch? must be very sad that chloe recovered.
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Post by clover on Sept 1, 2003 9:51:23 GMT -5
ghost> lolz I dunno, dun think my bf will appreciate it if I say he is the same as you. Then he might think he's equally hopeless. Wahahaha, joking la. He's just very sensitive abt it, so I dun want to joke abt it.
Chloe is doing very well! She is really getting more naughty these days, driving me up the wall. Ya, I getting a new digital camera. Stupid cheap one not working now, argh! I going Comex on Sat. My bf very excited.
puppy> Ya, my bf and I got many different issues to address. But dunno how to start also, cos he really hates confiding in me. Honestly, cos I try to ask him, he alwiz push me away one, make me very angry.
Hahaha, ya, Titch is very sad that Chloe is recovering well. She even walks away when Chloe goes near her now. Quite sad. She become very scared la. Chloe bit her ear again today, Titch is very pek chek I think. lolz
Tell you all something funny! Today, I put my lap top on the bed and lie on my stomach. Then I surf the net. Chloe is wandering around the room. She came and lick my face insistedly, I can't tahan, push her away after a while. She walked off. After a while, I feel someone massaging my bum! Wahahahaha! It's Chloe! She went and sit next to my leg, and put her front paws on my bum. Then she press and pull, press and pull. Massage my bum, hahaha! I can't help it, keep laughing when I turn my head and saw her. She purr and continue to press, I think she is having fun. Wahahaha...
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Post by puppy on Sept 1, 2003 11:15:08 GMT -5
clover > maybe chloe finds ur bum soft soft. hahaha... bouncy... my dogs also love to put their hands on my butt. they love to sleep on my butt, near my butt, when i switch on the aircon. guess my butt can keep them warm. some guys like to avoid the problems. last time my ex also like that. then end up break up 'cause volcano erupt liao mah. everything bottled up. then when we reconcile, we tell ourselves not to do that anymore.
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Post by geraldo on Sept 3, 2003 14:50:09 GMT -5
Heeheehee.........chloe really cute n funny , glad she's behaving like her old self again! Me saw fom *Funniest animal* on TV on cat's massaging their owner or dogs!.........super funny man! 2 imagine ur chloe n puppy's doggies olso like tt , must b veri *SHIOK!* n nice hor . U ppl really out of topic leh , but it's commom here at GT lor . Even ghost himself olso like tt !!!! Ghost<< 6 times huh ..... no joke! ...... me nev say u hopeless hor , at least not openly lah .
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Post by ghost on Sept 4, 2003 13:22:34 GMT -5
Ghost<< 6 times huh ..... no joke! ...... me nev say u hopeless hor , at least not openly lah . Hehe...if i ever pass,willdefinitely give u 4 no.to buy one,hehehe....
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